The choice is yours

Choice simply means the act of picking between two or more possibilities or alternatives. It is selecting one's favorite or the best.
It is preferable if we ask for opinions on making a choice than allowing someone make one for us. Personally, I do not believe in influence except in cases of 'duress'. Make the right choice today!!

I'll be giving my opinion on several reality bites today:

Case 1: "I got married about some years ago and my husband keeps insisting on me being a housewife to take "better" care of our kids".

Reply: Personally I believe no one should be in control of one's life. Your husband might be the head of the family but not the 'head' of your thoughts. What happens if he isn't there tomorrow? If he keeps insisting, he should set up a store or a boutique for you. An idle one is a devil's workshop. 

Case 2: "I'm a 14 year old guy, and I find other guys attractive. Am I gay? Is being gay okay?"

Reply: My dear, the answer is no, being gay isnt okay. Not even a bit. Homosexual experimentation has become quite trendy nowadays. Just because everyone says its okay doesn't make it right in God's eyes! There is a difference between attracted to the same sex and having sex with them. Nowhere does God's word say gay attraction is a sin but includes 'gay sex' in a list of sexual sins. God created Adam and Eve to become 'one' not Adam and Evans. Just because you're attracted, doesn't mean you should act on that attraction. Be strong!

Case 3: "I've been raped by this guy I trusted and dated. Why did he do it? What do I do now"?

Reply: That's terrible. Rape is an awful thing to do. Some boys rape because of wrong beliefs and 'influence' thinking they are 'champs', "Act now, think later".
They often believe that women really want to be raped; that women owe sex in return for money spent on them; that when women say no, they really mean yes; they have no control over their sexual actions; and its okay to rape a woman if she isn't a virgin.

People often say 'its not healthy to have trust issues' how do you expect one to trust when someone can hurt you this much? I urge you to take legal actions against the guy,  you may be able to protect other girls from such a horrible experience.

Many of you might say 'isn't he her boyfriend, why then would he want to rape her?" Now understand, RAPE is a sexual encounter without the 'victim' consent. Her consent wasn't seeked. Therefore it is termed 'rape'.

What are your opinions on these cases?